How to deal insult and criticism in Hindi- 3 Tips to deal with Haters

How to deal insult and Criticism?

How to deal insult and criticism in Hindi- 3 Tips to deal with Haters

Aaj hum discuss karenge ki kaise hume insult or criticism se deal karna chahiye, khud khushi se jene ke liye or successful banne ke liye. Criticism hindi meaning hota hai – aalochana. Aapko yaha kuch tips bhi milege “how to overcome fear of insult” ke. Follow kare ye simple rules :-

  1. No one kicks a dead dog

Robert Hutchin ek bohot he mehnati insaan the, jinhone bas 30 sal ki age me America ki 4th richest university YALE ka president ban ke dikhaya. Wo apne colleagues se or dusre professors se chote the, to obviously unse jo chote the age me unhe ye decision zara bhi pasand nahi aaya. Unhone Robert ki buraiya or unka criticism karna start kar diya. Sab unse jalne lage the, infact newspaper wale bhi unki burayi karne lage the. Bas isliye kyuki unhe itni choti age mei ek badi position de di gayi thi. Jis din unka inauguration tha us din unke father ko unke ek dost ne kaha. Newspaper me aapke bête ke bare mei bohot buri baate likhi hai. Tab unke father ne kaha, han mujhe pata hai lekin ek bat yaad rakho “No one kicks a dead dog!”

Koi bhi insaan uske bare me itna zyada nahi bolta jo apni life mei kuch extra ordinary nahi karta. Or jo bas zyada tar logo ki tarha ek boaring zindagi je raha hai. Jitne nhi log life me kuch alag karte hai ya bada karte hai, un logo ko he log ctiticise karte hai . or unki he burai karte hai, ye insaano ka nature ban gaya hai. Kyuki aisa karne se unko thodi importance milti hai, jo wese to unhe milne se rahi.

Criticism is actually a hidden compliment!

Criticism actual mei ek chupa hua compliment hai jisse ye pata chalta hai ki aap important ho. Aap itne important ho ki kisi ne apna time nikal ke aapke bare mei baat ki. Isiliye use bura feel karne ke bajaye khush ho jao, kyuki aap apni life mei kuch to aisa kar rahe ho jo attention dene ke layak hai. Varna aam logo ko to koi puchtat tak nahi hai.

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  1. Keep your umbrella open for the rain of criticism

Aapne ye story to suni he hogi jaha ek aadmi apni wife ke sath ek khachar(Mule) ko lekar kahi jar aha hota hai. Tabhi pas ke kuch log apas mei bolne lagte hai ki. “Kaise pagal log hai, apne sath khachar ko rakhe hai phir bhi pedal chal rahe hai uspe sawari karne ke bajaye”! Ye sunkar aadmi apni wife ko khachar pe betha deta hai or jaane legta hai. Phir kuch he dur pe or log milte hai or comment pass karte hai ki. “Dekho ye aurat khud maharani jaise bethi hai or apne pati ko chala rahi hai”!

Ab ye sunke aurat utar jati hai or apne husband ko khachar pe bethne ko bolti hai. Iske bad jab wo jane lagte hai to aage kuch or log bolte hai ki. “Dekho is aadmi ko apni wife ko chala raha hai or khud aaram se aaram se bethe hai. Kaisa husband hai!”.Tab dono preshan ho jate hai or decide karte hai ki dono khachar pe bethege.Ab final option lene ke baad jab wo jaane lagte hai to wapas log ye bol ke hasne lagte hai ki. “Dekho kaise kharab log hai, dono eksath bichare khachar pe beth gye hai or ek sath safar kar rahe hai. Zalim log!!”

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Is story se hame bohot important bat sekhne ko milti hai. Jaise ki: Ye bat yaad rakho ki “aap kuch bhi karlo, logo ko agar criticize karna hoga to wo criticize karenge he”. Koi bhi point ko pakad ke, isiliye aapko unki baato se preshan nahi hona hai. Bas unhe ignore karna hai! Kyuki most of the time unki bate bas aapko niche girane ke liye or aapki burayi karne ke liye hongi. Na ki kuch ache ke liye. Bohot se successful log is chez ko jaldi samajh jaate hai ki burayi hona normal hai. Or hume us topic pe safai dene mei pna time waste karne ke bajaye bas apne kaam pe dhyan dete hue aage badte rehna chahiye. Yahi best option hota hai.

Wo karo jo aapne ache se soch ke decide kiya hai or phir dusro ke un saste opinions ki barish ke liye ek ignore karne ki umbrella laga lo. Jisse aap bache raho or wo bate bina aapko chue behti rahe.

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  1. Welcome criticism since none is perfect

Zyada tar criticism or buraiya faltu hoti hai, jinhe hume ignore karna best hota hai. Lekin kuch criticism sach hote hai, jinhe hume accept karna chahiye or phir unhe improve karna chahiye.How to deal insult and criticism in Hindi- 3 Tips to deal with Haters

Example, ek aadmi hai or bohot mota hai or bohot zyada khana khata hai. Isiliye log use mota bolte hai or uske bohot zyada khane ko criticize bhi karte hai. Par wo logo ki bato ko ignore karte hue bolta hai ki me mota nahi hu, bas thoda zyada healthy hu. Or tum log mere khane se zyada jalo mat! To aisa karke un sache criticism ko accept nahi karna samajhdari nahi hai. Kyuki jab tak wo manega he nahi ki wo mota hai tab tak wo patla hone ka sochega he nahi. Or uske healthy hone ke chance bhi zero honge. Lekin agar wo accept kar lega ki han mei mota hu or mujhe patla hona chahiye. Tab at least uske patla hone ke kuch chances to badh he jayege

Isiliye agar aapko koi criticize kar raha hai sahi baat bolke. To use suno or us insult ki help se improve karo, naki gussa ho jao. Faltu logo ko ignore karo lekin sahi buraiyo se sekho, kyuki wo ek opportunity hogi aapke improve hone ki. Bohot se companies chahti hai ki aap feedback ke unki kamiya or burai batao, jise wo notice kar ke unhe improve kar sake. Isse at the end unka he faida hoga. Isiliye aap bhi apni kamiya or buraiya search & find out kro, phir unhe improve karo. Ye step aapko successful banne mei bohot help karegi.

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